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Different on Purpose
I was a powerhouse of a woman. For most of my life, I wore that title with pride. I was raised by a strong, independent, mostly single mother who taught me one clear lesson: never rely on a man. Be able to take care of yourself. Don’t need anyone. Don’t be vulnerable. Don’t be dependent. That mindset helped me survive a lot of life. It got me through hard seasons. It made me capable, responsible, and resilient. But somewhere along the way, I started to realize something uncom

Tami H
4 days ago3 min read
I Don’t Like Organized Religion Because It’s Become a Business
(But I Love Jesus More Than Ever) I’m just going to say it out loud: I don’t like organized religion when it starts to feel more like a business than a relationship with God. And before anyone misunderstands me—I love Jesus. I believe in the church. I believe in community, accountability, worship, teaching, and serving. What I struggle with is when the structure becomes more important than the Spirit, when the brand becomes louder than the Bible, and when people start to feel

Tami H
Jan 43 min read
Watching My Family Heal Is One of the Most Beautiful Things I’ve Ever Witnessed
For a long time, I didn’t have language for what I was feeling. I just knew something was different. Something was shifting. Something was healing. And now I can finally say it: I am watching generational cycles break in my family — and it is one of the most beautiful, holy, and healing things I’ve ever witnessed. This kind of healing doesn’t show up in dramatic moments.It doesn’t arrive with applause or announcements.It shows up quietly — in softer voices, in honest conver

Tami H
Dec 31, 20252 min read
God Calls All of Us to Be Disciples — Not Celebrities
Somewhere along the way, we confused calling with clout.We confused discipleship with degrees.We confused holiness with platforms.And we confused God’s favor with financial excess. Jesus never told us to become impressive. He told us to follow Him. “Go therefore and make disciples…” — Matthew 28:19 Not build brands.Not grow empires.Not chase stages.Not monetize the gospel. Just make disciples. Paper Doesn’t Make You Holy A degree, a license, a certificate, a title, or even de

Tami H
Dec 31, 20252 min read
A Changed Heart
Every Christmas, families watch the Grinch as a familiar villain—bitter, isolated, and hateful. But beneath the cartoon is a deeper reflection of the human heart apart from God. The Grinch wasn’t always cold. He became that way through rejection, pain, and isolation. His bitterness hardened into resentment, and resentment grew into hatred. And when he saw joy in others, he didn’t feel inspired—he felt threatened. Scripture tells us: “The heart is deceitful above all things an

Tami H
Dec 9, 20252 min read
Learning to Love Myself
For years, I thought if I could just change the way I looked on the outside, everything inside would somehow fall into place. Cosmetic...

Tami H
Aug 21, 20252 min read
Stop Chasing Influencers, Start Chasing Jesus
Too often, we follow the people who led us to Christ more than we follow Christ Himself. Whether you came to know God through the...

Tami H
Aug 12, 20253 min read
Lord, I’m Tired of Always Being the One
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been the one holding things together. The one who reaches out first. The one who sends the texts, the...

Tami H
Jun 12, 20252 min read
Marriage Misused: A Christian Reflection on Culture’s Distortion of God’s Design
In today’s world, the sacred covenant of marriage is often reduced to a contract of convenience—entered lightly and exited even faster....

Tami H
Jun 12, 20253 min read
Thank You to Those Who Walked Away
Thank you to those who unfriended me, who turned their backs on me, who betrayed me, who failed me, who hurt me, who broke me, who...

Tami H
Jun 12, 20252 min read
Fatherless,But Not Forsaken: How God Heals the Hurt of an Absent Dad
There’s a deep ache that forms when a girl grows up without her father.It ’s not always visible, but it’s there.In the quiet tears.In ...

Tami H
Jun 12, 20253 min read
Help Without Harm: Loving People With Wisdom and Boundaries
I’ve always been the type of person who helps when I can. If I love you, or we share a meaningful connection, I’ll show up for you —...

Tami H
Jun 11, 20253 min read
It’ll Never Be Enough for People, and That’s Okay
No matter how hard we try—how many changes we make, how many counseling sessions we attend, or how much effort we pour into being better...

Tami H
Apr 15, 20252 min read
My mom is a warrior
My mom didn’t just survive—she fought. She clawed her way through pain, heartbreak, and hardship, and somehow came out the other side...

Tami H
Apr 2, 20253 min read
Breaking Free from Invisible Chains
Have you ever heard the story about how baby elephants are trained to believe they’re stuck when they’re really not? When elephants are...

Tami H
Mar 26, 20252 min read
Mustard on White: When Everything Seems to Go Wrong
Some days, life just feels like one giant mustard stain. Let me explain. My daughter and I have a long-running joke—whenever we wear...

Tami H
Mar 17, 20254 min read
Dumping Out Our Purses: Letting Go, Healing, and Trusting God
Ladies, have you ever had to dump out your purse just to find your keys? You dig through everything—old receipts, gum wrappers, a dozen...

Tami H
Mar 17, 20252 min read
Thank You to Those Who Walked Away
Thank you to those who unfriended me, who turned their backs on me, who betrayed me, who failed me, who hurt me, who broke me, who...

Tami H
Mar 1, 20252 min read
Running from Grief: Embracing the Inevitable
Grief comes from loss. It’s not just about death—though that’s often what we think of first. Grief follows divorce, broken relationships,...

Tami H
Feb 25, 20252 min read
When the People You Love and Trust Most Betray You as a Child
As children, we naturally look up to the adults in our lives for guidance, protection, and love. For me, those people were my...

Tami H
Dec 31, 20243 min read
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